THE CAMBODIA ORPHAN SAVE ASSOCIATION (C.O.S.A) GIFT GIVING CIRCLE
June 5th 2007 by Megan Bayliss in Child Abuse
“Even as a child I wanted to work with children”. I revisit these words with a smile as I write. I remember sitting in my bedroom as a young person, at 14 years of age and writing a poem called, “Seeds of change”. The poem was about children in poverty stricken countries, the value of each and every child and the potential I felt within every child in the world, to effect change in the world. It was from that significant moment that my feeling of connection outside of my immediate reality truly began. It was a couple of years later, at the age of 16 years that I became connected in with World Vision and began sponsoring my first child and now, 12 years later, that I embark upon the next phase in my journey towards ‘gift giving’.
Within myself I had always held a vision of wanting to ‘do something’ to help others in the world, to offer something of value, to give of myself in a way that was outside of my work role. For many years I have focused upon ‘helping’ through voluntary contributions locally, through fundraising for charities, via my own personal interactions and through my work role as a social worker, counselor, Community Support Worker and Trainee Play Therapist.
However, it wasn’t until I visited
Whilst I was in
Words cannot describe the absolute beauty and uplifting spirits of the children I met at the orphanage. And each day now that I sleep in my own bed I think of the 39 children at the orphanage sleeping on the floor in their shelter and I cry, but I also smile. I cry at the hardships the children have had to and continue having to endure, however, I also smile with the hope that I may be able to help make life easier in some way, maybe even better, for each and every child in this orphanage. I also smile at the hope that regardless of the distance physically between us, the spiritual connection we made will continue and will strengthen over time and that with further contributions – including financial, emotional, physical, practical and spiritual; that I (alongside with others) may help each and every child within this orphanage to not only have their basic needs met, but to also have further opportunities to love, to be loved, to feel nurtured, to experience family, to feel welcomed and accepted and remembered by others in the world, to feel cared for, to share their ‘selves’ with others, to discover them ‘selves’, to love themselves’.
Most of all, I smile at what a privilege it was to meet each child in the orphanage, I smile at the way their faces lit up when we handed out pencils and notepads, the way they thanked us for these so humbly and with such excitement, the excitement they shared at eating lollies, the amazement in their eyes at their ability to use lego blocks (they had never seen these before) and to create something, their pride in themselves for coloring in between the lines, their enthusiasm and passion for sharing with us their traditional dance, their smiles and laughs and team work and welcoming, openheartedness to us, as strangers, coming into their classroom which is also their eating area, their bedroom and their safe place – their home. I smile most of all at the children themselves – their hearts, their souls, their personalities and their sharing. And as I write this and as I remember it I am transported back there, into their homes and into their hearts and I look forward with great excitement to hopefully return to visit the children in August of this year.
While I was at the orphanage I was made very welcome by the staff, who allowed me to speak and play with the children, to hand things out to them and to have photos taken also. The Director of the orphanage, Sean Samnang also insisted on writing a receipt for the small donation that my friend and I provided while we were there, signed by him and with the official stamp for the orphanage. And since this time I have been truly blessed to be in touch with Samnang via email and to access further information in relation to the orphanage, including the registration certificate for the business and details of the structure of the organisation etc.
It is due to all of the above that I have decided to start a gift giving circle and the reason that I have contacted you. I sincerely and wholeheartedly hope that you will find it within yourself to join collectively to help the children at Cambodia Orphan Save Association. Your contribution will not only be significant, but life changing for all 39 of the children! On behalf of them I’d like to thank you for taking the time to read this information and to care.
Natalie McKenzie.
Note from Megan Bayliss: Thank you Nat. This is a project that I would like to support. The thought of forty children, eating. sleeping and schooling in that one little room (yes, the one pictured folks) perturbs me. Further, the opportunity for child sex exploitation is rife in many countries (particularly Cambodia) and I cannot sit back and ignore a call for support of creating a better life for children. I am sure that many others will think similarly. Therefore Nat, I am raising a PayPal donation button to allow global readers to join your circle of giving and protect children in Cambodia. To my readers, please consider giving just $1.00 to help raise funds for the orphans of Cambodia. Nat is returning to the orphanage in August and this money can go with her to purchase whatever it is that the children need.
Please help Natalie McKenzie support the orphans of Cambodia. Donate just $1.00 today:

July 3rd, 2007 at 10:52 pm
Dear Megan, It was such a big surprise to see that you also wrote about COSA. I have been with the kids last march and i have loved them from the first second. It was a great experience and with pain in my heart i left them. I was touched to be at work and google a bit. I saw some pic’s of yours and with tears in my eyes i am looking at them. I don’t know you, but certainly i do know the kids and see their faces. Good to see you cared for them too. You made my day. Thanks…. Chantal
July 4th, 2007 at 2:39 pm
Hi Chantal
it was a friend of mine who spent time at the orphanage. She has been busy fundraising and is going back to visit again in August. My son and I have collected some little presents to send over to the children.
I believe that the children were all happy to know that they know have a spot on the web where everyone can read of what is being done for them.
I am glad that there are so many people in the world willing to help.
July 26th, 2007 at 10:46 am
Hi Chantal and Megan
I was so touched Chantal to read your posting and to hear that you also have visited the children and that they have touched your heart too. My life has changed dramatically since I have met the children and will never be the same now. I want to thank you so much for your beautiful words. I am going back over to volunteer at the orphanage in a week! I am so very excited! Once again - thankyou so much Chantal. I feel privileged to have met the children and to have made this connection with you too. Thankyou
And Megan - I want to thank you so much for your kindness, determination and giving spirit and for putting the kids on the web! I am so lucky to have people like you committed to helping children in our world! THankyou - thankyou - thankyou!
Love Nat
December 15th, 2007 at 5:23 am
Dear Megan,
Thank you for organizing this. I too have been to Cambodia and was touched by the spirit of the people. I was also saddened at the poverty I witnessed. We were on a tour and were able to enjoy the children from the orphanage who came to a restaurant where our guide had taken us. She had arranged for the children to come sing and dance for us, they were delightful. All the children we met in Cambodia were so sweet, I too was touched by their smiles.
June 2nd, 2008 at 9:41 pm
Dear Natalie, Megan;
Thanks so much for having these photos and information on the web. I visited this Orphanage last October - Natalie, I think the Tuk Tuk driver that you be-friended was the same one I had all week in Siem Reap! He took me to the orphanage where I had to struggle not to cry for the several hours I spent playing with those beautiful children.
Anyway, I bought a t-shirt and promised to send money when I was back in the UK and working again but I lost the director’s details and have been feeling terrible ever since. Do either of you have an email address/URL for the Director or the orphanage? I have lots of Aussie presents and useful toys for the kids and want to transfer some money also.
It’s great to hear that so many people are keen to help once they have visited this orphanage. Those children touched me so much and I wish I had had the time to volunteer there - I can’t wait to go back!
Cat
August 4th, 2008 at 10:22 pm
This is more a question than a comment and similar to the email above. I visited COSA in February ‘08 and left full of intentions to set up a standing order and do some serious fundraising for them. It was a great experience. Since then, I am ashamed to say, life got in the way and that combined with a hard disk crash where I lost all relevant details has meant that I have done nothing. I would like to give directly to the orphanage, can anyone provide me with the relevant info - is it still known as COSA? I know Sam said there was a possibility that a second orphanage might be opened under a new foundation so as to be financially independent. Also can you tell me the best way to make a regular monthly payment so that minimum costs are paid by the donor and the orphanage (we are in Belgium) Thanks for any help you can offer - also tips for fundraising at a different level. Thanks